Sometimes, we want conflicting things. We might think we want a good marriage, yet feel we want a spicy affair. We might think we want to be on a diet, yet feel that we want to eat a gallon of ice cream. Knowing what we want—even when we want conflicting things, helps us get to […]

TRUTH OR SNARE?-In Search of the Truth-PART 1 of 3
TO READ– WHO ARE YOU? PART 2 of 3 GO TO: https://www.willyou.guru/who-are-you TO READ– WHAT DO YOU WANT? PART 3 of 3 GO TO: https://www.willyou.guru/what-do-you-want Over the past three weeks, we’ve discussed the painful effects of untruth in all its forms: denial, pretending, avoidance and half-truths. After reviewing all the disastrous results: low self-esteem, unfulfilling relationships, heartbreak, […]

SELFISH V. SELF-CARE
For most of my life, I bent over backwards to assure that I was not being selfish. This led me down a winding path to discover the true meaning of selfishness and self-care, and the vital importance of a life worth living. What is selfishness, really? As my dad always said, “A man wrapped up […]